Inner Critic

How do you silence your own inner critic? That little voice inside your head, feeding your negative thoughts & self-doubts. Realise it only has as much power as you give it & stop focusing on what if & instead think...

Angry Face

This morning my daughter was eating her cereal and asked me to help her eat the last bits around the bowl, I scraped down the sides and she got her little chair to sit in front of me and then...

Breast Dressed

Even though we may come from different parts of the world, we may speak a different language, have a different culture, we as women have one thing in common. What is the universal symbol of femininity? Breasts (o)(o) What is...

Ego

This post is dedicated to the musical genius of Prince, a man who never let his ego supersede his talent ? Ego ? It’s what makes us who we are. We can applaud, criticise, defend, humble or mastermind ourselves based...

False Perceptions

False perceptions What people think about you based on limited interactions or knowledge vs who you really are vs how people change over time. What you see may not be the real picture.

Double Love

My son is my second child. I’m lucky because I already have a daughter so even though I only wanted two children, I’m officially done with the set ?‍?‍?‍? When my daughter was born I was overwhelmed with my love...

Projection

Last night we went to the circus ? There were aerialists and trapeze artists and basically all sorts of spinning, twisting, twirling and impressive displays of strength, flexibility and power. I loved it and admired how in control of their...

Spotless

When I was younger I liked a spotless house, by younger I mean childless and by spotless I mean I have been known to use a cotton bud to clean dirt out of floor crevices. Becoming a mother has been...

What is Love?

What is love? ❤️ For me it has always been about the little things, the small gestures, the observations that show you matter and he cares, it’s also about what is said, words have power & they are an insight...

Predators

All Is Not As It Seems They will hurt you, molest you, accost you at will, For them it means nothing but a predator’s thrill They will touch without warning, Spy on you & betray, The trust you once had,...

Warrior

We all have battles that we have faced in our lives. Abuse can be insidious on many levels & is a dire reflection of society that it is often the most vulnerable who suffer & are left with the deepest...

Space Embrace

It’s the little things in life that make parenting a pleasure. After a couple of days away I got home, put the kids in the bath and saw the unadulterated joy of my son splashing the water with all his...

Line In The Sand

Once you cross a boundary it becomes easier to do it again. Then what was previously unacceptable becomes acceptable. In your words, your actions, your beliefs, your morals & values, keep your standards high & only accept what is acceptable.

Uplift

Everybody deserves the right to be free, to be who they are without discrimination, to say what they believe without recrimination, to be true to themselves. Feeling free is an amazing feeling, it’s why going travelling is so uplifting for...

Goddess

This material is powerful, it inspires desire, With intent & passion it will light your fire A woman’s perogative to thrill or dismiss, A lingering glance or a seductive kiss Soft skin, fingertips, lace, leather & wine, Come close, make...

Impulse

The joy of being a parent is the never-ending spontaneity of life. Not knowing what will happen next. As mothers we want to believe our children have a bright future, where they can pursue their dreams and be anything they...

Unresolved Issues

I have such a strong emotional reaction to what I perceive as injustices. I learnt from a young age that life isn’t always fair, sometimes your expectations won’t be met and at the end of the day you are the...